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What Encouragement Sounds Like

You can use hundreds of words and phrases to actively encourage your children. Find the ones that suit your style and please your children's ears. Here are some ideas:

 
awesome bien hecho that's the way
you really earned it I'm proud of you nice try
wow you must feel proud good effort
try again, you can do it gimme five good for you
good one you can do it very good
you go, girl that's great bingo
a'right you've got it you did it
you the man I'm proud of you now you're cookin'
way to go terrific keep it up
nice job I really like that I know you're up to it
now you're getting it cool right on
super thanks way to go
check it out you made it amazing

The more specific you can be, the better your child will respond to encouragement. Instead of "Nice painting," try "I love the lines down here at the bottom; they're really fluid." Rather than "Thanks for watching your little brother," try "You were really successful getting Tim to eat, tonight!"



Modified and adapted with permission from: Helping Your Child Succeed in School: A Guide for Parents of 4 to 14 Year Olds, by Popkin, Youngs, and Healy, Active Parenting Publishers, Atlanta, Georgia, 1995. Refer to this excellent resource for more in-depth information.

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